When the emissions light went off 20 minutes after leaving my parents house in St. George, and then we lost power in the car, thankful was not the first emotion I felt. A minivan full of 5 children, packed with all of our luggage and crap, and stranded on the side of the road was slightly surreal… something in the plot of a bad holiday movie.
We were literally in the middle of nothing… no houses, no gas stations, nothing. At first I felt like a kid lost at Disneyland. Overwhelmed and having no idea what to do or where to go next. It was Sunday and the dealerships and repair shops were all closed. I quickly pulled it together, called the insurance company who set up the tow truck to come pick up my car. I then reached my parents who were still at their St. George home. The plan in my head was that my dad would pick all of us up in his van and take us back to their home to figure out what to do next.
When my dad showed up in his big van, we transported our 50 tons of stuff and got the kids loaded up, with the expectation that either Greg or I would stay with our car until the tow truck came. But my dad had other plans. He told us to just take his van (he keeps it at that house just as an extra car for when all of the families descend), and he would stay with our car and get a ride back with the tow truck company. I felt really guilty about dumping our problem on him, but he insisted.
On the drive home, I went from being bitter and stressed to feeling incredibly blessed. Here we were, in a situation that could have been really bad, but it wasn’t.
It could have been cold and snowing, but it wasn’t.
My parents could have not been home, but they were.
My dad could have had any kind of car, but he had one that actually accommodated 7 passengers.
We could have not had the emergency road side assistance on our insurance, but we do.
We could have been 150 miles away from St. George, but we had just left.
Our van could have not been under warranty, but it is.
I could have been out of cell phone range, but we weren’t.
I could have had my first experience trying to flag down help, but I didn’t.
We arrived an hour or so later than expected, but after the events that took place, an hour deviation was really nothing. In the scheme of things, it was just a very small wrench in the plan. We’re not sure about what’s wrong with the car yet, OR how we are going to get it back, but at this point these seem like small inconveniences rather than real problems.
I’m so incredibly thankful to have the most generous and selfless parents in the world, AND ones who see the beauty in custom vans :). I’m thankful we had the foresight to get what we did on our insurance plan, as well as purchasing a car with was certified and under warranty. After this weekend, I’m grateful for a lot of things, and it definitely feels like there is someone watching over me and my family.